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Why do we treat eachother the way that we do
Hello all,
When I think about girls I feel bad. I think about the way we're trained as we grow up...
It seems like if you're a girl - a normal looking - pretty girl - you're "brainwashed" (I'll explain why I puncuated in a moment) into being a certain way.
You grow up as a girl - and you have people in your life protecting you if you're beautiful... you have it easy compared to the outcasts growing up...
You are treated in accordance with your beauty... and at the same time you're still a human being. At the same time you still are as scared and confused as the rest of us...
you come into the world and this part of you that is given special treatment learns that there is some kind of protection from the pain and suffering that is given to everyone else who isn't as beautiful...
but at the same time you meet new pain and suffering that those of us that never were beautiful would never understand fully... a pain and suffering that comes from never being able to relate to the rest of us. It may be out of bitterness that I say this but this pain is nothing compared to what we who are not like you - those who are not special and popular and loved because of what we look like and how we are bred go through...
But you girls who are so perfect -
I see you out there and I the men who love you and protected you - your fathers and brothers - and we both know how heartbroken they'd be when they realize that you're human and you like to have sex. You like to get drunk. You like to get stoned.
I feel like they saw this innocence in your beauty that needed to be protected from these things we percieve as evil... and when you find these things (because you're a human being...) something special is lost. Something that was at one time protected - some beautiful innocence is lost.
You're a human being just like me.
But I'm ugly and people have treated me as such. No one would care whether or not I was out having sex and drinking and doing drugs...
No one would care if I was alienated and I still feel like I'm in a cage when it comes to social interactions - all because of how I am seen as one of "them" - a normal person... nothing special about me... someone who was picked on for being ugly and fat growing up...
but they - and I - certainly watched as beautiful girls grew up into beautiful women - who revealed in front of everyone that they were human afterall whether they either became curious about sex or did drugs for some reason... or ran off with some guy who seemed to make everything seem as if it would all work out some how...
I watch these things happen and it hurts me.
I listen to my male friends as they talk about having sex with you - not caring about your parents feelings about you being grown up- finally old enough to do it, even if you started in freaking junior high... but rather - treating this experience as if it belonged to them (the males that you were with) and only them... talking about you like you were an accomplishment - as if we were cave men, boasting about out latest kill where we provided for our families and became men...
and I sit there and tell everyone around me that it hurts me to see them participate in this game.
I'm weak myself... and since this is annynoumous - I will say that I selfishly feel like I'm hurt the most...
I have no specific quesiton... but I wonder if some girl who is out there - who is drinking and having sex and doing drugs...
who has had guys fall in love with her just because she was friendly and "took them in"...
who has banished said guys from ever talking to her again because she was creeped out by him - the moment he said he like her more than a friend...
If there is a party girl who's family believes to be a saint...
if you can give me some perspective on why we keep doing this - why we hurt eachother and why we lie - I'd love to hear from you.
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I need your help honest answer
Know whats funny? I have always been a nice person, helping others, being friendly and such. Im was pretty semi fat, not overweight. I weighted 213 lbs, I now weight 205....
I cant find a girlfriend!. Two months ago I dumped my GF because I discovered she snuck out of home, had sex with guys and went to parties and got drunk..shes young, like me. I am only 17.
She was my 2nd girlfriend I ever had!. I moved away to another state to be back with my mother..(Not because of my ex GF). My mom lives with her BF and we are christains, we believe its wrong to have sex before marriege.
I am surrounded by old hags and old idiots!, the area were I live in is full of old people, crime everywere and the schools are horrible, so I am currently home schooled until I find a better place.
Long story short, ive been gaining muscle, loosing alot of weight and now I am in shape!. I weight 184. Thats all I am oobsessed with now, is to become that what I wasnt. I was weak, a pulling insigificant person. My 'friends' in church talk to me, they invite me to games and such. But I dont go.. girls talk to me. they say things that I always wanted them to say but now I dont give a ****
"Wow____You look good!. Hey, me & my friends are going to the beach tonight, u wanna come? You can go with usm we got enough room in the van".
"No".
Thats all I said before walking away. Was I rude? No, I was simply being reasonable. When I was out of shape, shy and quiet and friendly, no one ever talked to me, they only respnded when I talked to them, now they come along with those stupid smirks on their faces and those fakes smiles, liking me because suddenly im in shape? I look good? BAH! **** em. During the training I had and the execises, I came to a conclusion. I grasped great truth on a deep, fundamental level: that the strength to survive must come from within. Others will always fail you. Friends, family, fellow lovers ... in the end, each person must stand alone. When in need, look to the self. Only you can watch your back, cause no one else will.
I got news that my ex GF was raped and beaten to a pulp, haha. Now she decided to call me, asking me how I was, what im doing, how she misses me. I could not help myself but laugh at her face and hang up!. Why? Because she deserves every bit of it. ALways chasing trhee guys at once, screwing one and jumping to the next. I hate her more than ever, now she reaps what she sowed!.
But, I need help now. I already surpassed the ones I envied, im better! im stronger!. While they are living in problems, I am ascending to a better lifestyle. My mom works all day long, comes back at night, her BF does the same, he comes back after dark. I am home alone always, there is no car for me to drive and everyone, my cousins and friends dont usually call to say whats up or wnna hang out.
I found the potential to get a GF, but can I get the right one? one who likes me for who I am and not for my looks?. Because they all seem slutz to me..
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HA that is wh the weak fail and the strong prosper so how do I get girls and keep them
Know whats funny? I have always been a nice person, helping others, being friendly and such. Im was pretty semi fat, not overweight. I weighted 213 lbs, I now weight 205....
I cant find a girlfriend!. Two months ago I dumped my GF because I discovered she snuck out of home, had sex with guys and went to parties and got drunk..shes young, like me. I am only 17.
She was my 2nd girlfriend I ever had!. I moved away to another state to be back with my mother..(Not because of my ex GF). My mom lives with her BF and we are christains, we believe its wrong to have sex before marriege.
I am surrounded by old hags and old idiots!, the area were I live in is full of old people, crime everywere and the schools are horrible, so I am currently home schooled until I find a better place.
Long story short, ive been gaining muscle, loosing alot of weight and now I am in shape!. I weight 184. Thats all I am oobsessed with now, is to become that what I wasnt. I was weak, a pulling insigificant person. My 'friends' in church talk to me, they invite me to games and such. But I dont go.. girls talk to me. they say things that I always wanted them to say but now I dont give a ****
"Wow____You look good!. Hey, me & my friends are going to the beach tonight, u wanna come? You can go with usm we got enough room in the van".
"No".
Thats all I said before walking away. Was I rude? No, I was simply being reasonable. When I was out of shape, shy and quiet and friendly, no one ever talked to me, they only respnded when I talked to them, now they come along with those stupid smirks on their faces and those fakes smiles, liking me because suddenly im in shape? I look good? BAH! **** em. During the training I had and the execises, I came to a conclusion. I grasped great truth on a deep, fundamental level: that the strength to survive must come from within. Others will always fail you. Friends, family, fellow lovers ... in the end, each person must stand alone. When in need, look to the self. Only you can watch your back, cause no one else will.
I got news that my ex GF was raped and beaten to a pulp, haha. Now she decided to call me, asking me how I was, what im doing, how she misses me. I could not help myself but laugh at her face and hang up!. Why? Because she deserves every bit of it. ALways chasing trhee guys at once, screwing one and jumping to the next. I hate her more than ever, now she reaps what she sowed!.
But, I need help now. I already surpassed the ones I envied, im better! im stronger!. While they are living in problems, I am ascending to a better lifestyle. My mom works all day long, comes back at night, her BF does the same, he comes back after dark. I am home alone always, there is no car for me to drive and everyone, my cousins and friends dont usually call to say whats up or wnna hang out.
I found the potential to get a GF, but can I get the right one? one who likes me for who I am and not for my looks?. Because they all seem slutz to me..
I am not fat..I am Sith
But ur damn STR8!
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this guy has used me but what should i do
sorry this is really long. but please don't ignore this. i really need help :'(
ok so this guy called tom was totally drunk & stoned & this girl called natalie was completely sober & basically tossed tom off of got him to finger her. after that, tom was really ashamed & started being really horrible to natalie cus he regretted what happened. me & tom then got really close as friends & we went to a party & got a little drunk and ended up making out all night. he tried to finger me, but i stopped him cus i didnt want it to go too far. the next day was really awkward & i couldn't face him so i left without speaking to him. when i signed into msn he went 'sorry :(' & i asked him why he was sorry & he said 'for ruining your night' & then we would just talk normally when we saw eachother & what not. & then tom would keep bringing up the night we made out, he'd say 'you have a really nice bum, i felt it that night' & stuff like that. & then he went 'are you going to the next party?' & i said 'probably not' & he said 'scared what will happen?' & i asked him what he meant by that & he said 'are you not gonna go because your scared that we'll do stuff again' so i said 'are you suggesting that we will?' & he said 'yes :)' . we found out that there was another party & tom said to me 'you just wait for tomorrow' then at the next party (which was a couple of days ago) we both got a little drunk again & made out again, this was at 10-11pm, we then went to our friends house & by the time we got there it was midnight. so me & tom slept in a separate room to everyone else cus there was hardly any room. & we just made out for 2 hours. by 2am, he fingered me. then we went to sleep & woke up at 5am & we made out & he fingered me again. & then we went to sleep again. we woke up at 9.30am & we were making out & he tried to finger me again but i wouldn't let him. then i left & went home. the next day on msn he said 'sorry' again. & when i asked him why, he said 'because i didnt know what i was doing & i shouldnt have done it' so i said 'liar :)' because i thought he was lying cus he said 'i shouldnt have done it' as if it was an accident, when it wasn't cus he even suggested twice that we'd do stuff & he said 'he didnt know what he was doing' he wasnt even that drunk! & even if he was, he'd sobered up a hell of a lot. & even the next day before i left, he was making out with me! now hes ignoring me. i really dont understand whats going on with him.
ive tried working him out, & so far i have 3 conclusions..
1. hes a player
2. he likes me but he wont admit cus he doesnt want to ruin the way his guy friends see him. (hes the only one out of all his friends whos had sex & apparently they all 'really respect him' for it).
3. his ex really hurt him so hes just getting a girl who he doesnt want anything serious with, but just action..& i so happen to be that girl. (i think this because he hates his ex girlfriend).
what do you think? & what should i do? do i talk to him & sort this all out? do i just not speak to him for the way hes treated me? or do i think 'f*** it, he wants to use me? then ill used him back!' & carry on doing things with him but just not taking it seriously??
i personally think that i should just play the game & just not let myself develop any more feelings for him. what do you think??
oh yeah & btw, if anyone wants to know..im 15. yes i know its bad :/
& toms 15 too
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ladies i need advice what should i do
i was with a girl for 3 years she broke up with me two months ago but we did hang out for most of the break up. she told me she loves me and then this last weekend she said she was done with me. like has my chances ran out. then on yesterday she wrote on twitter. "even though im on my own journey, i still love you!" but this weekend she got drunk and said she was thinking of making out with guys. she is not that kind of person cuz she made out with me for the first time 2 years into the relationship. and out of nowhere she said she wasnt pleasured by me anymore. but the last few weeks felt really great when we had sex. she didnt feel like she was faking at all she told me it was like her top 5. do you think she said that to push me away. and why 3 days later write on twitter she still loves me. plus she has told me she wants to date other guys. why does she tell me she loves me but wants to date. why play games with me. i know i have made mistakes but never cheated. the worst i did was hangout with 2 girls i knew since 7th and 3rd grade. but i lied about hanging out with them and they are like one of the guys. and i texted my ex previous from the 3 year one. but she is a really close friend before i went out with. it didnt work out so we stayed really good friends. also i sound controlling but i am only trying to help her out. and my anger and temper get out of hand. i havent talked to her the last three days and she hasnt tried to contact me. we are both in college 2nd and 3rd year. me 21 her 19. we have gone through so much and even lived together for a year until she got enough money to move out from my parents house since her grandparents kicked her out. should i wait for her. should i move on (not a possible choice im still in love with her a lot), give her some alone time. what should i do if she meets another guy that would break my heart again. please help. thanks sorry for having it long.
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Help I am 27 Man Advice
I started dating someone in the city and saw him once a week for a few weeks in the beginning of the summer... he didnt try to hook up with me right away-- the first 5 or 6 times I hung out with him or stayed at his place, we kissed and that's it... he was super mushy and gave me little kisses on my forhead. I think that's what got me. We slept with each other after about 5 or 6 dates, but he was completely sweet and adorable about everything. Led me to believe he was so into me, not just into being physical. I know he was super busy this summer. he was rennovating a condo to rent it out in the city and had a month or two to get it done. While he has a regular job as well. We saw each other after a few weeks went by with mutual friends and my plan was to blow him off, as i felt he has done the same to me... although after a few drinks that didnt happen. After making it apparent to his friends that I wasn't hanging out with him anymore and I was dating other people, he was going out of his way to get in touch with me literally the next day. We all went away for the weekend and while we were away he said to me "I really like you, I'm sorry- I shut down, I guess it's an emotional thing," Again, we had the most amazing night and weekend, and he was adorable the next day... We text each other while he was working yesterday and he's totally into me-- how can I tell he isn't just into me for sex, but really has something for me? I am going to the same destination this weekend that he goes to with his friends all summer (I did not plan that, we realized it last weekend) but he didnt know if he was going there this weekend. Do I contact him to see if hes going? do i not call him at all? I dont know what his deal is. He's 30-- like, do we still have to play stupid games? I thought I was done with that when I was 21. My girlfriends were annoyed with everything because they never saw us together until last weekend, now they think he's a cutie and saw how we were together. How do I figure all of this out? Im horrible at this stuff!!! help help help! thanks =) xoxo
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Do guys like virgin girls Im 21 Is that too old
Okay i am 21. never had a boyfriend. I am not bad looking or anything like that. cuz guys offer me to be my bf or date or just wanna sleep with me. but I've been rejecting them til few days ago. I met a guy at the party and I was drunk little bit. And the guy tells me he knows me but i never saw him before. but we got clicked somehow. he tries to have sex with me after "dirty game". i was so drunk and i went for it. Of course it was hurting so bad and asked him to stop. but he tried many times but it didnt work. i left him in the morning cuz i felt so embarrassed that we didnt have any satisfaction from the "sex". so i might be stupid but i was expecting him to call me or txt me something. but he didnt. and i was so depressed talked to my bff. and they blamed me its my fault to left him. So i got his number txted him that I'm sorry. but he said "its okay really:) Have a nice day!" so since then we never contacted. so i guess he's a loser. but i just cant figure out that guys like virgins or not?? what should i do if something happens like this again? inside i really wanna sleep with someone i like and break my virginity. but its not happening :( T_T
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Level 1:
() Smoked A Cigarette
() Smoked A Cigar
() Kissed A Member Of The Same Sex
() Drank Alcohol
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Level 2
() Are / Been In Love
() Been Dumped
() Shoplifted
() Been Fired
() Been In A Fist Fight
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Level 4
() Had A Crush On An Older Person
() Skipped School
() Slept With A Co-worker
() Seen Someone / Something Die
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Level 5
() Had / Have A Crush On One Of Your Facebook Friends
() Been To Paris
() Been To Spain
() Been On A Plane
() Thrown Up From Drinking
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Level 6
() Eaten Sushi
() Been Snowboarding
() Met Someone BECAUSE Of Facebook
() Been in a Mosh Pit
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Level 7
() Been In An Abusive Relationship
() Taken Pain Killers
() Love/loved Someone Who You Cant Have
() Laid On Your Back And Watched Cloud Shapes Go By
() Made A Snow Angel
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Level 8
() Had A Tea Party
() Flown A Kite
() Built A Sand Castle
() Gone mudding (offroading)
() Played Dress Up
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Level 9
() Jumped Into A Pile Of Leaves
() Gone Sledging
() Cheated While Playing A Game
() Been Lonely
() Fallen Asleep At Work / School
SO FAR:
Level 10
() Watched The Sun Set
() Felt An Earthquake
() Killed A Snake
SO FAR:
Level 11
() Been Tickled
() Been Robbed / Vandalized
() Been cheated on
() Been Misunderstood
SO FAR:
Level 12
() Won A Contest
() Been Suspended From School
() Had Detention
() Been In A Car / Motorcycle Accident
SO FAR:
Level 13
() Had / Have Braces
() Eaten a whole pint of ice cream in one night
() Danced in the moonlight
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Level 14
() Hated The Way You Look
() Witnessed A Crime
() Pole Danced
() Questioned Your Heart
() Been obsessed with post-it-notes
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Level 15
() Squished Barefoot Through The Mud
() Been Lost
() Been To The Opposite Side Of The World
() Swam In The Ocean
() Felt Like You Were Dying
SO FAR:
() Cried Yourself To Sleep
() Played Cops And Robbers
() Recently Colored With Crayons / Colored Pencils / Markers
() Sang Karaoke
() Paid For A Meal With Only Coins
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Level 17
() Done Something You Told Yourself You Wouldn't
() Made Prank Phone Calls
() Laughed Until Some Kind Of Beverage Came Out Of Your Nose
() Kissed In The Rain
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Level 18
()Written A Letter To Santa Claus
() Watched The Sun rise
() Blown Bubbles
() Made A Bonfire On The Beach or anywhere
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Level 19
() Crashed A Party
() Have Travelled More Than 5 Days With A Car Full Of People
() Gone Rollerskating / Blading
() Had A Wish Come True
() Been Humped By A Monkey
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Level 20
() Worn Pearls
() Jumped Off A Bridge
() Screamed "Penis" or "Vagina"
() Swam With Dolphins.
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Level 21
() Got Your Tongue Stuck To A Pole/Freezer/ice Cube
() Kissed A Fish
() Worn The Opposite Sex's Clothes
() Sat On A Roof Top
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Level 22
() Screamed At The Top Of Your Lungs
() Done / ATTEMPTED A One-Handed Cartwheel [FAILED]
() Talked On The Phone For More Than 4 Hours
() Recently stayed Up for a while talking to someone you care about
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Level 24
() Picked And Ate An Apple Right Off The Tree
() Climbed A Tree
() Had/Been In A Tree House
() Been scared To Watch Scary Movies Alone
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Level 25
() Believed In Ghosts
() Have had More Then 30 Pairs Of Shoes
() Gone Streaking
() Visited Jail
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Level 26
() Played Chicken
() Been Pushed into a pool with all your clothes on
() Been Told You're Hot By A Complete Stranger
() Broken A Bone
() Been Easily Amused
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Level 27
() Caught A Fish Then Ate It Later
() Caught A Butterfly
() Laughed So Hard You Cried
() Cried So Hard You Laughed
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Level 28
() Mooned/Flashed Someone
() Had Someone Moon/Flash You
() Cheated On A Test
() Forgotten Someone's Name
() French Braided Someones Hair
() Gone Skinny Dipping
() Been Kicked Out Of Your House
() Tried to hurt yourself
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Level 29
() Rode A Roller Coaster
() Went Scuba-Diving/Snorkeling
() Had A Cavity
() Black-Mailed Someone
() Been Black Mailed
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Level 31
() Been Used
() Fell Going Up The Stairs
() Licked A Cat
() Bitten Someone
() Licked Someone
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Level 32
() Been shot at/or at gunpoint
() Had sex in the rain
() Flattened someones tires
() Rode your bike/Driven your car until the fuel light came on
() Got five pounds or less worth of fuel
() I am gonna star this question
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