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Why do we treat eachother the way that we do
Hello all,
When I think about girls I feel bad. I think about the way we're trained as we grow up...
It seems like if you're a girl - a normal looking - pretty girl - you're "brainwashed" (I'll explain why I puncuated in a moment) into being a certain way.
You grow up as a girl - and you have people in your life protecting you if you're beautiful... you have it easy compared to the outcasts growing up...
You are treated in accordance with your beauty... and at the same time you're still a human being. At the same time you still are as scared and confused as the rest of us...
you come into the world and this part of you that is given special treatment learns that there is some kind of protection from the pain and suffering that is given to everyone else who isn't as beautiful...
but at the same time you meet new pain and suffering that those of us that never were beautiful would never understand fully... a pain and suffering that comes from never being able to relate to the rest of us. It may be out of bitterness that I say this but this pain is nothing compared to what we who are not like you - those who are not special and popular and loved because of what we look like and how we are bred go through...
But you girls who are so perfect -
I see you out there and I the men who love you and protected you - your fathers and brothers - and we both know how heartbroken they'd be when they realize that you're human and you like to have sex. You like to get drunk. You like to get stoned.
I feel like they saw this innocence in your beauty that needed to be protected from these things we percieve as evil... and when you find these things (because you're a human being...) something special is lost. Something that was at one time protected - some beautiful innocence is lost.
You're a human being just like me.
But I'm ugly and people have treated me as such. No one would care whether or not I was out having sex and drinking and doing drugs...
No one would care if I was alienated and I still feel like I'm in a cage when it comes to social interactions - all because of how I am seen as one of "them" - a normal person... nothing special about me... someone who was picked on for being ugly and fat growing up...
but they - and I - certainly watched as beautiful girls grew up into beautiful women - who revealed in front of everyone that they were human afterall whether they either became curious about sex or did drugs for some reason... or ran off with some guy who seemed to make everything seem as if it would all work out some how...
I watch these things happen and it hurts me.
I listen to my male friends as they talk about having sex with you - not caring about your parents feelings about you being grown up- finally old enough to do it, even if you started in freaking junior high... but rather - treating this experience as if it belonged to them (the males that you were with) and only them... talking about you like you were an accomplishment - as if we were cave men, boasting about out latest kill where we provided for our families and became men...
and I sit there and tell everyone around me that it hurts me to see them participate in this game.
I'm weak myself... and since this is annynoumous - I will say that I selfishly feel like I'm hurt the most...
I have no specific quesiton... but I wonder if some girl who is out there - who is drinking and having sex and doing drugs...
who has had guys fall in love with her just because she was friendly and "took them in"...
who has banished said guys from ever talking to her again because she was creeped out by him - the moment he said he like her more than a friend...
If there is a party girl who's family believes to be a saint...
if you can give me some perspective on why we keep doing this - why we hurt eachother and why we lie - I'd love to hear from you.
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Why is poprapsome alternative music popular when it sucks
Ok so today I was in the car with my twin sister (we're 14) and she got to sit in the front seat so she got in control of the radio. Anyways she puts on a very popular radio station called "hot 99.5" (D.C. fm radio station, cause we live in northern Arlington), and I started to listen to these songs that I thought were complete crap, I mean it was as if the artists thought of one line and decided to replay it 100 times! or they thought of lyrics that are plain disgusting and stupid. And the beats were obviously produced by sound generators on the computer, rather than a musical instrument. Some of these songs were: boom boom pow, love drunk, love game, good girls go bad, don't trust me, fire burning, circus, etc... and not one of them appealed to me, but my sister was actually enjoying that shit! Then I tell her to turn off the radio and she just ignores me. So I was wondering why these pop/rap/alternative songs are so popular, I thought music was supposed to be about meaning and were written from passion and self experiences. And you don't get that happy feeling you get while listening to music from the 90's and before. All I feel is disgust because I'm hearing: "I wanna take a ride on your disco stick (love game)"; "Shush girl, shut your lips, do the Helen Keller and talk with your hips (don't trust me)"; and "My pocket started tickle-ing the way she dropped it low that thang got me wanna spend my money on her (fire burning)." And in all these and every other song played on that radio station have one or two annoying beats that never stop... just effortless. So why is music terrible now and how the hell did it get so much more popular than what we had?
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would you play this video game
Would you play this video game?
now before you read this, i did not write this but i did have a similar idea to the person who wrote this. i copied this description from a website call game discovery. so all the credit goes to James Owens. this game is not in devolopment but if you want to see it on the market join my facebook group. called "People who want to play a police RPG."
Sim Police
"There is a lot of demand for this kind of game, especially among players of the popular Police Quest series and SWAT 3.
You're a police officer in a large metropolitan city (a SimCity would be nice). You start out as a rookie (there can be a short training period or rookie school at the beginning to familiarize you with the way the game is played).
This game would be played much like SimCopter and Police Quest. The car would be driven like Need For Speed or Streets of SimCity. You patrol your beat at your own leisure and answer game-generated calls for service (armed robberies, speeding vehicles, riots, wrecks, medical emergencies, traffic jams, fights, drunk drivers, burglar alarms, shootings, fires, etc). There is a map on your car console, that displays an icon showing you where the call is. You have several AI partners on the streets with you. You can call them by radio for backup, also you can hear what they are doing and back them up. You can also notify dispatch for fire and ambulance help. You can also come across speeders, drunks, etc, at random. Whether they pull over and how long it takes them to pull over is up to the computer AI. You may have to chase them.
You have a good bit of equipment to use:
Pistol
Shotgun (stored in trunk of car)
Baton
Pepper Spray
Walkie
Flares
Ticket book
Handcuffs
Flashlight
You also have a choice of several cars to drive such as marked and unmarked Crown Vics and Camaros. Promotions and paychecks are based on points, and money can be used in convenience stores, coffee shops, and to buy new equipment (or maybe to pay informants) etc.
You car also has the basic equipment of a police cruiser. Police radio, spotlight, radar, lights and siren (the siren should have several tones, adjustable by the player, and the lightbar and siren should be on separate switches, this a serious flaw in Need For Speed and other games).
You can interact with people, and you can walk inside building to do things (eat, do paperwork, answer calls, etc.).
There is a central police station, a jail, hospitals, fire stations, bars, gas stations, and a small substation for you and your partners to hang out. There are "big city" areas as well as suburban areas and "bad" neighborhoods." writes James Ownes
Sim Police Video Game
Name
James Owens
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Help I dont know what to do
I've never been popular at school. I've always been kinda average. Of course I have friends, and also people that I talk to.
But when I got to high school, I dunno...everything's different. Nobody wants to talk to me (except my close friends and some other people). People judge me A LOT, because I wear a lot of makeup, bright colors, skinny jeans, stuff like that. I listen to loud rock/alternative stuff (not metal, I hate metal). I want to be a singer of a band when I grow up. They hear that I'm straight-edge and instantly think I'm a punk, or think I'm uncool because I refuse to drink/do drugs. Also, I'm kind of shy around people I don't know well, and some people think I'm a snob or antisocial because of it. In classes where I don't know anyone and we have to pick partners, I'm almost always left out.
I do cheerleading, and EVERYONE on the squad hates me. Seriously, I can count on one hand how many times they'ved talked to me since I started freshman year (I'm a junior now). I like cheerleading, but I hate going to the practices/games because I'm always ignored. No one even told me we started practice today. I had to find out through one of the girls who figured I knew and asking me for a ride. (I DIDN'T know because everyone was told through Facebook. I don't have one, and no one on the squad bothered to let me know, even though some of them have my number.)
It's really starting to get to me, and I feel really lonely sometimes. I don't know what to do. The people that bother to know me think I'm an awesome person. I just wish everyone could see it.
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what do you look for in a card shopstore
i'm thinking about opening my own card shop.
i was going to have snacks/drinks available for purchase
along with a couple different card games that would be the majority of my stock.
i would carry magic and yugioh as the majority of my stock since i play them.
i was also going to host tournaments for magic and yugioh
but i need help on what other TCG's to carry.
what are still really popular and what are some up and coming TCG's
also should i carry some comics or just stick to the TCG's
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What is my problome Help please
I'm in grade 10 I'm not ugly, not super pretty either. not fat but not skinny. I'm in the popular group in my school. I've never had a boyfriend. you know silly drinking game and little pecks but nnever anything seirous. I'm outgoing, fun ect. Kind of akward sometimes. I just dont get why I am always alone.
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What are the parameters of this Group Site as far as meeting someone for possible frindship or relationship
I have been out of the game for a long time, was always the popular guy. Not chopped liver, a little older, slower. Character, personality, etc., this is not a comercial. Just went through a nasty divorce that took time from my life, will not go "dupster diving" just to satisfy my flesh. I spent a year after the divorce trying to make sure my daughter was taken care of and in a safe place.
From early on, being asked why don't I get out and rejoin the world. I stuck to dealing with what i think are more important issues. I love love!!!! Still ove to laugh even alone and listening to music, etc. But this isn't a relationship. I gave in and tried a couple sites only to get hit by people who aren't who they say they are. I have met a couple distant who say I am not full of "clesheas", and awkward comments like others. This is because i have always respected ladies/women, thank the Lord everyday for adding the beauty that they bring to the world. It is awkward!!! I haven't had an inapropiate conversation, meeting with another lady since 2nd date with my then future wife it turned out to be. And haven't to this day!!
One thing awkward, I don't smoke, rarely drink, don't normally use profanity. Have had to have spinal surgery but am not crippled(a little sloer, or a lot) I always worked out before so I am slower. Not chopped liver!! Has sitting on the side lines too long taken me out of the game?? Am I loser for being a loyal friend and husband/father for so long. Where am I wrong in enjoying home mostly, and wanting to meet people online unless I pay. Sorry for editorialising too long. But I could go out and find a one night stand. But I want a relationship, not out of pity, not by lowering standards. Is there a group or the possibility of meeting good and attractive ladies here, friend/ relationship. On Groups. Is the fact that I decribe myself honestly as passionate/effectionate, cuddly a buz killer although women want it also but don't want to admit it?? Of the ones i have met, it was a common character attribute to the meeting, but it is of distance geographically. Is there anyone or a group for meeting without paying after people have expressed interests but to talk is to pay for a premium membersip??? Is there a genre on Groups????
This was no pity party.
i simply ask about parameters. I am not trying to replace anything. I do not have online datining experiences as reffered to before in another question. I explored trials and found they are covered by foreign dating scams of which i haven't been a victim. I have records, redundant photos of the same person used on several accounts and cited professionals who are warning about these rip offs. This is the only reason I mentioned the answer in that question. And I took no pleasure in it. I at least allow rplies to my answers to topics by not hiding and/or refusing emails etc. And i used the spell checker, if you found something talk to the software people. I ask for no pity, what you pay for as you said does not apply to relationships.. Sorry I hit a button.
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i dont know if i should be freaked out or flattered help 10 points to best answer
so this girl messaged me on facebook and said:
"Hi, I don't know if you know me, but my name is Ambur, and I've seen you in school. Weren't you new but you went out with that really popular boy? Well I just wanted to tell you I think you are very pretty, and I've kind of always wanted to be your friend. We had lunch together, and you sat with all the popular girls and I always wanted to be your friend because you seem way different than them. You seem a lot nicer. Sorry if this is weird but I think you are very cool and I was wondering if we could hang out sometime? I would love to have more friends for our senior year like you do. You're very popular, I'm not a stalker just wanted to be your friend. You seem very cool."
? isn't that weird? when i moved to my new school i already knew this guy there from myspace and shortly we started going out. he was really popular so we have a lot of mutual friends. and now that we broke up, i'm still friends with all the "popular" people. and i understand she wants to have fun her senior year, but how is that my problem? her picture looks familiar but she doesn't seem like she would do anything i would do. like drink, party, smoke, etc. she's so different than me, should i be her friend? and she can use a makeover, should i do that too and play this stupid "make her popular" game? i just don't want to have the responsibility of making someone popular..
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