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Depression I break down and cry some times I have no clue why please help
Okay I am 17 years old I am a single mother to a 3 year old!
My sons sperm donor has never been here, he would really care less if I was alive!
Okay I was 13 when I lost my virginity ,by the time it was about to be my 14th birthday I found out I was pregnant, I told the jay and he said he wanted a dr's test done. I did it for him, well once again he said don't believe it,He didn't want to talk to me or have anything to do with me, right before my 15th birthday I had my son April 2006, I let the father be there (jay) Then I had my birthday august. I had the normal depression and had trouble trusting people!
Well a year went by My son was about to have his first birthday , and His "me maw" (on the fathers side) showed up wanting to know if she could be at the birthday party, I said yeah well right after his birthday about a week later we went to her house and Jay showed up, I asked him would he like to hold his son, he didn't even look at him and said that ain't my kid, well i left and didn't answer or talk to any of them well the 2 nd birthday was about to come up again his "me maw" showed up wanting to know if she could be at the party, again I said yes, and everything went okay, well again a week later we went over to a different house that she had moved to, and she got pissed at me for no reason, well she graped my son up and threw me out the door and wouldn't let me have my kid, i told her i was calling the cops and she said go ahead, I will tell them you was trying to kill him, well I finally got her to give me my son and his bag and my stuff. Well the car seat was in the truck and she wouldn't give it to me, Okay I walked holding my child his bag and my stuff 15 blocks and then another 36 blocks back to my house. Walking though a very bad hood where women are killed and raped every day and night.
I got back to my house, and Jay started calling me, why the hell you walk all the way to your house with my kid. I hung up
Because he keep calling I keep answering, and he asked me again
why did you walk all the way with my kid, I said oh now he is your kid, what about when I was pregnant when I was the one waking up when he needed to eat,a diaper change, where was you when I had to walk my son in the cold to the dr's 9 miles from my house?
He didn't answer , then i asked him where was you when I was up all night and day with him while he was teething, still nothing. then he hung up the phone. waited about 10 Min's and he called back.
I answered and started to asking him the same things. all he wanted to say was uh,HM,uh,,why.
I told him i was done playing childish games,
and I was hanging up and changing my number, he didn't call back no one came by!
well after that a few months went by and me and his mother started talking again, well i went over there and jay was there but he didn't say nothing for a while, then after everyone went to bed he wanted to talk so we did, he said if you want me to be here for him i will but i can't deal with your bitch ass mom and you. y'all team up on me every time.
Well I asked him the same things , where was he when etc etc...
okay well everything was fine and for the first time, he held logan.
talked to him and everything. well when it was time he wanted to go to bed,and logan wasn't tired he got pissed. well the next day was a saturday, everything went okay then that night he left, and the next morning he was suppost to be there to spend time with logan, he didn't show.
Well that night he showed up messed up on weed and i guess had been drinking. and I told logan to go spend time with him since he didn't show up when he said he would to spend time with logan, he got pissed and started bitching at me, cursing me well i told him that he didn't need to be bitching out and cursing me in front of logan, well he got worse and picked up a chair and threw it at me hit me with it and then turned around and picked me up and threw me into the door,and tryed killing me, cutting my breathing off and hitting me.
Well his mother finally did something and I told her i was leaving one why or another if i had to walk!
her boy friend ended up taking us home at 1 am , and i got home and got on my computer and started getting emails and im's from him,"i am going to kill you " your a dead bitch etc etc.
Okay well i called the cops and they said that if he keeps up call them again but they couldn't do nothing until he showed up
well now once again his "me maw" contacted me by email this time, because he had moved. Okay well i added her to my myspace profile and she worked her way in, and I had been going for a dna test on her son to get child suport, so she said she would help me and get me the address.
Well she wanted to know if she could once again be here only for the birthday party, i guess i had not learned my lesson and let her, hell she was going to get me the address for her son, and did well Kinda
but anyways about three weeks later i had put my m
okay, i have no clue why it didn't finish my question but he has never wanted to be here,never will be i won't let him not now after this, but my son is 3 years old and i am just now finding someone that is special, that loves me and my son and we love him. it is hard because when i think about it i just wish he never came into my life, and then i think of my son and how worderful he is and would give my life to save him! My son is my light,my love and my world and i would never let anything happen to him but i just wish jay wasn't his father
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I need help Long read
I'm sixteen and I’m always feeling what I think is depressed, and that's basically because I always feel like every time I start to feel good about myself something happens that makes me feel like utter crap again.
This all started in 1999 when my mum and dad split up (I was 6) and I took it really hard. I only saw my dad every other weekend and then at the start of the year 2000 I was forced to move schools because my mum didn't like the primary school that I was going into. I lost my 2 only friends when this happened.
In that year I made friends with a group of people, about 4 or 5, and I started to feel good about myself again. During this time I was living in my nans house because we couldn't afford to stay in our own. Then at the start of 2001 we moved again and I had to move to a third school.
At this point I started to feel really awful, and for the first 2 months I was at the school I didn't talk to anyone or have any contact with anyone other than my teacher, I sat in the corner of the playground alone and mostly cried. Eventually, a group of boys kept trying over and over again to cheer me up and invite me to play games with them, and after a while I decided I might as well. I can't thank those guys enough, they're all still my closest friends, and I should probably tell them this.
I don't remember seeing my dad very often after 2001 but in 2003 he told us that he was moving to America to marry some woman who he had fallen in love with. He couldn't live here with her because of something to do with her divorce, forcing her two children to grow up in America. I then lost contact with my father and only received the occasional birthday card.
My mum has always hated my dad since he left us, and whenever she gets angry and starts to shout it always ends up somehow reverting to an argument about my dad. She says I can feel free to contact him, but then later she start saying how he left us to take care of someone else's children, and that he doesn't deserve a chance, and if he contacts us (me or my brother) it's only to clear his on conscience.
Because of this I've never really been close to my mother either. During these growing up I also constantly the subject of my brother and cousins’ jokes and pranks, they never stopped teasing me, and because of them I’m still afraid of being on my own and the dark etc.
I've also had trouble with girls in that I asked a girl out about a year and a half ago who I thought liked me and she turned me down, and then this happened again with another girl this year just before the start of summer. I've never spoken properly to anyone about any of this, always constantly bottling it up, sometimes even joking about it in front of my friends, probably to act like I’m fine.
My dad has tried to get into contact with me on myspace by sending me messages, and I don’t know if I can bring myself to reply, because I don’t know what to say and whether he wants to get to know me now or whether its to ease his own guilt. My brother and mum got into an argument recently and now he's moved out and doesn't seem like he's coming back, so now it’s just me and my mum.
I've lost my appetite, I hardly get any sleep, mainly because my mind is always rushing with thousands of thoughts per second, I don't know how to turn it off. After about 2006 I stopped crying whenever I was sad, and bottled it up, occasionally breaking down every couple of months in bed late at night.
I’m referred to as "the funny one" in my group of friends because I always make jokes and never take anything seriously, which I think is because I sub-consciously don't want to have to deal with any issues and want to keep people at a distance from my emotional side. I hardly ever have any human contact, and even then it isn't the least bit sincere.
I’m not sure what there is to gain from posting this here, but I guess getting this off my chest makes me feel a little bit better. I actually felt better typing this before I even submitted it.
Thanks, you're response has already made me feel a bit better. And ironically I do wish to be a comedian, and have even started to write some of my ideas down.
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Is it wrong for a man to leave his pregnant girlfriend
I ask this because my husbands ex always plays this card, how my hubby left her while she was pregnant and she has had to raise the child by herself. It's been 15 years. My husband has this whole time paid child support, although there was a rough time when he missed a couple payments but paid it back as soon as he was able to (lost job, relocated, and we had a new baby.) He has NEVER felt it wasn't his responsibility, and doesn't care if his son is his actual blood or not. I say this, because when she got pregnant they were both teens, she was 16. He caught her cheating (intercourse,) with several men, not 1 not 2 but 3 which she didn't try to deny. He learned that this had been going on even before she had gotten pregnant, and his son is now the splitting image of his old HS friend who slept with her behind his back. So after her continuing to cheat even while pregnant he broke up with her. She likes to play games and would rarely let my husband see him, and when she did it was on her terms, for how long ans when. She uses this card now because my stepson lives with us and has for the last year. She says this is why she won't and shouldn't have to pay child support. I'll add she doesn't even send presents for holidays or birthdays, or visit when she has the chance.
Oh she did. When my husband came into a large chunck of money she was always asking him for money. When he met me it ended after a little while. I mean, EVERYDAY we would go together to pick him up she would ask for $200-$300 for greoceries etc for their son. I finally got fed up that she was using him like this (she was getting child support,) so I suggested to my hubby later on why doesn't he just take his son out next time and buy them himself instead of giving her money. She tried numereous times to get my husband in her bed, when that didn't work she tried to make her son play games and she tried to tell my husband how much their son didn't like me. That was new to hubby and I as we were getting along great.
It was evil for him to leave her for sleeping around on him, pregnant or not? So he should have been okay with sharing her because she was prego? By the way she had later caught STD's and at age 19-20 had to have surgery to remove her uterus and tubes.
He had really thought he was his. That and his father had really gotten attached to the boy quickly, which he didn't want to end as his father had been in a depression from his other sons suicide. He also knew the boy needed a father. We plan to do a paternity test outside of court, so when he is older his dad can tell him when he is ready.
I only met my husband 5 years ago thank you. He didn't leave her for me.
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Father problems I could really use some advice
My parents divorced when I was 8 years old. My brother and I went with our mother to west virgina to live with my grandmother and my father stayed in south carolina.
For two years my brother and i heard nothing from our father. He never called us, he never asked to visit us, he never wrote any letters, nothing.
Then when I was ten he started making some effort to be in our lives. He would call us, and email us and send birthday cards and what not, and things started to improve. He told he us that he would visit soon, and that he was sorry; so naturally my brother and I forgave him nd for a little while things were good between us. He visited us, we visited him, we talked weekly, we spent time with each other and it was nice.
But after a while he stopped calling us and stopped spending time with us. Or he would say he was coming to visit then never show up, or yell at us over stupid things.
After about three years of this he started to be nicer. He went to calling us often, and spending time with us. He would come us for Christmas and easter, and Halloween. basically he started acting like a father again.
Then, out of nowhere he dropped off the face of the earth. he stopped paying child support, he stopped talking to us, he stopped calling, he quit his job, changed his phone number, moved, and we didn't hear from him for a long time.
Now my dad is back, wanting to spend time with us and be in our lives again, but I don;t think I can take it anymore. I resent him for playing games with our feelings- one minute acting like a father, and the next minute telling us he doesn't want anything to do with us. and abandoning us every time we start to get close to him again. I can't deal with it any more. I want to stop loving him or at least just feeling nothing for him. I don't want to love him because I know it will only lead to me getting hurt. But that makes me feel so guilty because you're supposed to love your father not be apathetic towards him.
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Im sick of my mother in law slighting my kids What if anything can I do
I'll try to make this as short as possible. I have a ten year old son that is not my husband's bio child. My husband is the third out of four children only one is a female. His sister's daughter is 13 days younger than my son. My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years and have had two children together. His sister had a second child two months before my 3 year old was born so actually we have two children that are around the same age. Ok, his sister passed away three years ago and my MIL and FIL are taking care of the daughter (the ten year old) and the 3 year old lives out of state with his bio dad. My kids are always getting shafted by my MIL! This happened even before my SIL passed away. I will give you two examples: 2 years ago my son had a Wii and asked for games for his birthday. My MIL told my husband that Wii games were too expensive and that they would just give him a giftcard instead so they gave him a $20 bill in a birthday card. 13 days later my niece gets a Wii, a new TV and several games for her birthday (all from my MIL and FIL). Also, my youngest just turned 2 on the 19th of July. They did not come to his party and brough over a book and DVD a week later for his birthday. She asked if we could come over this past weekend for a birthdday party for my nephew that they were having at their house and stated that it was no big deal just cake and ice cream. When we showed up it was as full decked out party including rented inflatbles for the kids to bounce in. My husband sees nothing wrong with this. My 10 year old is starting to catch on and I find it disturbing. It is so bad she used ot buy extra Christmas presents for my SIL's kids and have them open and hide them before we got there. They never attend any of my kid's sporting events or school things but will request work off for the other grandkids. They will not watch my kids for a couple of hours because they are taking care of my husband's grandparents and they think it is too much yet my nephew (who's 3) has been staying with them the whole summer and will not be leaving until September. Any advice?
They are not raising my nephew he is with his dad and step mom. These things happened even BEFORE my SIL passed away.
I don't discuss this around my 10 year old so you are wrong about that. He asks my husband why they never come to his soccer or basketball games and even made the comment that every time we go over there my MIL follows the 4 year old around dotiing over him and barely even notices my son (who is the same age). This is coming out of a 10 year old's mouth not mine.
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Im having a birthday party themed around Twilight for my daughters birthday party I need suggestions
I am having a birthday party themed around Twilight for my daughters birthday party we are separating into Team Edward and Team Jacob you have to choose your side on the invitation. I'm making sandwiches in the shape of wolves and apples, and having red koolaid to drink and candy blood bags that I found online. I am also getting chocolate molds and making white and red chess pieces as well as apples and wolves out of candy. I will also be getting red and white rose petals, red ribbon, and black, red, and white balloons but really need more suggestions.... Especially for games and treats to give out. (I also will have the sound track and the movies playing) Unfortunately there will be a lot more adults than children don't know that many kids and I want it to be fun for all.
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Child Supportwhat do you think women PLease answer
My child's father currently pays $120 month child support. I have another child that I get $400 per month for. I do not have a job..I live with my parents but I depend on the support and food stamps to make it. Anyway, I hastily took out the support on my son's dad. He is a great father who says he feels bad that I got the courts involved and that our child is suffering for it. He has drawn out papers asking me to drop the support and stating that he will provide the following: 41 outfits per year, (GYMBOREE) 4 pairs of pajamas, 6 pairs of shoes, monthly toys & games, pictures twice per year, karate classes once per week, any other recreational costs, all christmas gifts, birthday gifts, easter basket, back to school items, personal care items, socks, underwear, etc.
What would you do? Would you continue the support or allow him to pay for everything which he is basically already doing--but this would mean that our child gets alot more..Name brand clothes, afterschool activities.. Any suggestions about other things I should request? Should I allow him to claim the child alternate years? Thanks :)
By the way, I should have added that the support that he is paying isnt really being spent on my son. I let him pick a few things every now and then but he gets clothes once per year and a few back to school. Then I spend one payment on Christmas and birthday. I spend the rest on my clothes, nails, going on trips, etc. I do not have any bills or have to provide food or insurance. I feel like a horrible parent but its the best I can do right now.
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what should i do about my neighbors kids who i feel are neglected
My neighbors are terrible parents. Now, before anyone jumps the ole " How the hell do you know bandwagon " - let me say that I've lived next door to these people for 2 years. My kids and their kids play everyday and I've been to their home for birthday parties. The parents and I are not friends, nor have we ever been, so there is no bad blood between us or anything like that.
The problem is that these kids are neglected. There are 4 of them. The oldest is 12 years old. She is responsible for the younger kids, the house work and the cooking. This is from her own mouth as well as the mother. The mom is addictied to online video games and sits in front of her computer for hours at a time ingoring her kids.
The dad is addictied as well. He works though and seems to at least try, sometimes.
They are on food stamps and the mom collects child support on at least 2 of the kids, yet they can not affort clothes for the kids. I have NEVER seen them in anything new, which in itself is not negelect. But it gets worse. The kids will wear the same clothes for days! Last year one of the little ones wore the same pants and shirt to school 4 days in a row! I know because I gave her the clothes and she came to my house directly from school each day.
They went for 4 months recently with out hot water. 4 months! The dad told me this only after they had the landlord install an electric water heater so they wouldn't have to pay the gas company to get the hot water back on.
Their home is a a mess. They have several cats and a few dogs. The smell hits you like a wave when you walk into the front door. Everything is dirty except mom and dad's SEPERATE brand new computers!! With oversized screens, I might add.
Grrrr. I just makes me so mad, that they could care so little for their own children.
I have prayed about this time and again. One part of me says to just keep being a good person and keep giving the kids hand me down and keep trying to show them by example that they don't have to live like that when they get older.... the other part of me wants to call CPS.
I honestly do not know what to do. Any thoughts? Any advice?
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