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Relationship Help this is long serious answers only Can someone please help
I have a very complicated situation 4u here. Its very long & has a lot of details so please be patient. Back in December, I met this guy (from myspace) I didnt want 2 meet him, he msgd me a month prior & was doing everything in his power to try to get me out. I kept refusing, til finally after a month, I caved & was like fine. We met, and hit it off, halfway through the date he was already asking me out for the following weekend. I accepted. We hung out constantly from that point on, he'd call me & text me everyday, constantly thru the day (I never called him, cos there was no need, he'd beat me to it). On avg we'd hang out 1-3xs a week & would talk all the time. It was getting closer to Xmas Eve, & he asked me what I was doing...I told him, well, we're having a house full of people over (30+ all family) & he seemed sad/disappointed & was like "oh, i wanted to see you." so i asked, ure not doing anything w/ fam (he was, but only dinner around 4 & that was it)...so I invited him over, & he accepted (mind you, we were only dating 2 weeks, at this point, & he was now coming over to meet my entire family all at once, & was ok with this). He did, loved everyone, & had a blast. We also spent New Years Eve/Day together, & mind you he still called me every second he could of every day (before work, on breaks, after work, etc). Now its a month later, and I mentioned being exclusive....he gave me the "im not ready" song/dance (which i found weird, cos heres a guy who calls me constantly, always wants to be with me, met my family, i also met his at this point, bought me stuff for Christmas/Valentines Day, has told me I make him so happy, etc) & now, he's like "not ready". I asked why & he's like "well, I have a busy schedule (which he does, 1 fulltime job, 2 part time jobs, college 1 day a week, & he's a wreslter, & recently he signed up for volleyball 1 nite/week) so he's like im very busy, & am not ready to commit to that, also not on the same page as you (me), meaning he sees me as very into him, & before he makes that sort of commitment, he has to feel the same (like his parents feel for each other, 1st thought when he wakes up, thinking of me thru the day, last thought before bed), he said he wasnt on that same page. he said he wanted to see other people cos he rushed things in his last relationship (a girl who he was madly in love w/) & she broke his heart, leaving him for another guy. he was devastated over it. (he told me i was the first girl he dated since her, that made him really happy,& made him forget about her). So he said he wanted to date other people, to "make sure this is what he really wants" & "he has to do whats best for him" (cos of the work load), & he doesnt want "to get hurt" or "hurt me" so he needs to just back off a bit and slow things down. so i accepted & he went on other dates (always telling me about them, not to make me jealous, but to show respect in the sense that he wouldnt lie to me or do things behind my back...and hed always tell me where he was going, who he was with, and always would call me the second he got home). and at this point i had not gone on other dates. and him dating other girls, seriously made me sick to my stomach (i was and quite frankly still.....in love with him. i never felt this way about anyone before, ever, and the very idea of him out made me nauseas). if i showed any signs of jealously, this would make him back off more and more. so finally i got pissed...and backed off......mind u, while this is going on, he was still caling me every day on his lunch breaks, and the second he got out of work, like clockwork, as well as right before bed......so i gave up, still would see him if he asked me out, but went out with friends, and on other dates (also telling him i was going out on a date, with whom and where we were going, like he did, to show respect). and the more i started going out with other guys, the more i started to see a change in him (he didnt act mad, and would always ask did i have fun and be polite etc....but i noticed the more i went out and hung out with guys, he would text me more and more (while out) and if out with friends at a bar/club, would text me just the same, saying "he missed me". he's now at the point where first thing in the AM he texts me "good morning", will text me if he can during his lunch break, and always calls me the second he gets out of work to see how my day was.....then he'd go home, do what he had to do, relax unwind etc.....and then right before bed, he texts me good night, or will call me and say good night, either way, he has to say good night to me. i no longer bring up the conversation of being exclusive, cos well when i have in the past, it had led to arguements and him backing off, so i let him be. he has actually brought it up (last week) we went to a basket ball game, and on the way back, he brought it up, and was like he's "closer to making the next step" and and that's he's pretty much there, except his friends keep side tracking him and keep trying to change his mind, saying that im "too emotional" and that he should not get involved with me. i asked him "why they think that" and they said, "well those few times u freaked out at me and were jealous over the other girls i was out with" (which i was mad, and i did freak out), but i told him, in my defense, i had every right to, cos the both of them, were trying to make me look like a jackass on facebook (one was posting pics of the two of them out together, and the other would leave a comment, everytime i would leave a comment) they were both spiting me. i told him, i freaked, cos i dont like them, i dont like being made the fool, or having ppl trying to spite me. and was like "when u went out with person A, was i mad...when u went out with person B was i mad" to which he replied "no". so i was like, well...cos i didn't mind, i knew we werent an item, and u being out with them didn't bother me one bit, it was those two girls in particular, cos they were horrible people and made me feel like a jerk, and were doing everything in their powers to make u leave me. ididnt appreciate it. so he said "good point" so after that he was like "well, im pretty much there to take it to the next level,, he said I just need a couple weeks, to get through some stuff (work, wreslting shows, projects...hes a video editor, and exams/papers for college...also working on his master's). and since then, he is STILL calling me every day, texting first thing when he wakes up, on his breaks, calls the second out of work, and right before bed. if Im out with friends' he texts me constantly, saying he misses me, and if im out on dates, he'll still text me. i dont know what to make of all this, i dont know why he wont commit already. i dont see the big deal. and part of me is convinced it will never happen. i know its only been three months, but still, either you want to be with someone or you dont. i dont get it. he seems like he does. and it all seems promising now at this point.... but i know once before he has mentioned that his busy work load is a factor, and i talked to him just before i found you online, and was complaining that on his exam he didn't do well, this guy he works for doing freelance video editting wants his stuff by weeks end, he has a wreslting show Friday, and he starts his part time job tomorrow, and he seems very upset and stressed...and i am worried this will effect us....cause it seems like when we get closer to "us" theres something that happens bringing him 2 steps back. i dont know what to think and definetly need help on what to do. please get back to me ASAP and let me know what you think on this whole thing, I know its long, and I do apologize, but this is a long, detailed complicated situation I am in, and need advice pronto. i hope to hear from you soon, and hope you can help me and give me direction. thank you for your time
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Relationship Help this is long serious answers only Can someone please help
I have a very complicated situation 4u here. Its very long & has a lot of details so please be patient. Back in December, I met this guy (from myspace) I didnt want 2 meet him, he msgd me a month prior & was doing everything in his power to try to get me out. I kept refusing, til finally after a month, I caved & was like fine. We met, and hit it off, halfway through the date he was already asking me out for the following weekend. I accepted. We hung out constantly from that point on, he'd call me & text me everyday, constantly thru the day (I never called him, cos there was no need, he'd beat me to it). On avg we'd hang out 1-3xs a week & would talk all the time. It was getting closer to Xmas Eve, & he asked me what I was doing...I told him, well, we're having a house full of people over (30+ all family) & he seemed sad/disappointed & was like "oh, i wanted to see you." so i asked, ure not doing anything w/ fam (he was, but only dinner around 4 & that was it)...so I invited him over, & he accepted (mind you, we were only dating 2 weeks, at this point, & he was now coming over to meet my entire family all at once, & was ok with this). He did, loved everyone, & had a blast. We also spent New Years Eve/Day together, & mind you he still called me every second he could of every day (before work, on breaks, after work, etc). Now its a month later, and I mentioned being exclusive....he gave me the "im not ready" song/dance (which i found weird, cos heres a guy who calls me constantly, always wants to be with me, met my family, i also met his at this point, bought me stuff for Christmas/Valentines Day, has told me I make him so happy, etc) & now, he's like "not ready". I asked why & he's like "well, I have a busy schedule (which he does, 1 fulltime job, 2 part time jobs, college 1 day a week, & he's a wreslter, & recently he signed up for volleyball 1 nite/week) so he's like im very busy, & am not ready to commit to that, also not on the same page as you (me), meaning he sees me as very into him, & before he makes that sort of commitment, he has to feel the same (like his parents feel for each other, 1st thought when he wakes up, thinking of me thru the day, last thought before bed), he said he wasnt on that same page. he said he wanted to see other people cos he rushed things in his last relationship (a girl who he was madly in love w/) & she broke his heart, leaving him for another guy. he was devastated over it. (he told me i was the first girl he dated since her, that made him really happy,& made him forget about her). So he said he wanted to date other people, to "make sure this is what he really wants" & "he has to do whats best for him" (cos of the work load), & he doesnt want "to get hurt" or "hurt me" so he needs to just back off a bit and slow things down. so i accepted & he went on other dates (always telling me about them, not to make me jealous, but to show respect in the sense that he wouldnt lie to me or do things behind my back...and hed always tell me where he was going, who he was with, and always would call me the second he got home). and at this point i had not gone on other dates. and him dating other girls, seriously made me sick to my stomach (i was and quite frankly still.....in love with him. i never felt this way about anyone before, ever, and the very idea of him out made me nauseas). if i showed any signs of jealously, this would make him back off more and more. so finally i got pissed...and backed off......mind u, while this is going on, he was still caling me every day on his lunch breaks, and the second he got out of work, like clockwork, as well as right before bed......so i gave up, still would see him if he asked me out, but went out with friends, and on other dates (also telling him i was going out on a date, with whom and where we were going, like he did, to show respect). and the more i started going out with other guys, the more i started to see a change in him (he didnt act mad, and would always ask did i have fun and be polite etc....but i noticed the more i went out and hung out with guys, he would text me more and more (while out) and if out with friends at a bar/club, would text me just the same, saying "he missed me". he's now at the point where first thing in the AM he texts me "good morning", will text me if he can during his lunch break, and always calls me the second he gets out of work to see how my day was.....then he'd go home, do what he had to do, relax unwind etc.....and then right before bed, he texts me good night, or will call me and say good night, either way, he has to say good night to me. i no longer bring up the conversation of being exclusive, cos well when i have in the past, it had led to arguements and him backing off, so i let him be. he has actually brought it up (last week) we went to a basket ball game, and on the way back, he brought it up, and was like he's "closer to making the next step" and thats he's pretty much th and thats he's pretty much there, except his friends keep side tracking him and keep trying to change his mind, saying that im "too emotional" and that he should not get involved with me. i asked him "why they think that" and they said, "well those few times u freaked out at me and were jealous over the other girls i was out with" (which i was mad, and i did freak out), but i told him, in my defense, i had every right to, cos the both of them, were trying to make me look like a jackass on facebook (one was posting pics of the two of them out together, and the other would leave a comment, everytime i would leave a comment) they were both spiting me. i told him, i freaked, cos i dont like them, i dont like being made the fool, or having ppl trying to spite me. and was like "when u went out with person A, was i mad...when u went out with person B was i mad" to which he replied "no". so i was like, well...cos i didnt mind, i knew we werent an item, and u being out with them didnt bother me one bit, it was those two girls in particular, cos they were horrible people and made me feel like a jerk, and were doing everything in their powers to make u leave me. ididnt appreciate it. so he said "good point" so after that he was like "well, im pretty much there to take it to the next level,, I just need a couple weeks, to get through some stuff (work, wreslting shows, projects...hes a video editor, and exams/papers for college...also working on his master's). and since then, he is STILL calling me every day, texting first thing when he wakes up, on his breaks, calls the second out of work, and right before bed. if Im out with friends' he texts me constantly, saying he misses me, and if im out on dates, he'll still text me. i dont know what to make of all this, i dont know why he wont commit already. i dont see the big deal. and part of me is convinced it will never happen. i know its only been three months, but still, either you want to be with someone or you dont. i dont get it. he seems like he does. and it all seems promising now at this point.... but i know once before he has mentioned that his busy work load is a factor, and i talked to him just before i found you online, and was complaining that on his exam he didnt do well, this guy he works for doing freelance video editting wants his stuff by weeks end, he has a wreslting show friday, and he starts his part time job tomorrow, and he seems very upset and stressed...and i am worried this will effect us....cause it seems like when we get closer to "us" theres something that happens bringing him 2 steps back. i dont know what to think and definetly need help on what to do. please get back to me ASAP and let me know what you think on this whole thing, I know its long, and I do apologize, but this is a long, detailed complicated situation I am in, and need advice pronto. i hope to hear from you soon, and hope you can help me and give me direction. thank you for your time
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only guys plzas stupid as a sounds im not afraid to ask amp i like 2 knw the guys toughts of D mnd
i was sein somebody, then timepast he jus was jerky.. then i thought he jus wnted 2get in2 my pants. 2days ago i got a msg askin me wut i was doin? then i repnded & ask how his luvlife was, & how he was doin. he respnded bck sayin y do u ask me that. i repnded "bcuz i care 4u silly!!"i got a respnse sayin " f i tell u somethin u won't get mad" i said go ahead. he said not that i don't wnt a girl bcuz i do but right now wut i wnt is a friend with privlages.. i txt bck &said i rathr respct u then this ect.. then he jus txt bck say ok then well take care. then i txt bck sayin well takecare really & F i can i'll jus try to b here f u need somebody.really take care & knw ur limits& alwys remembr that D human heart see's wut D eyes R blind 2 & knws wut D mnd can't seem2 undrstan.ur vison will bcum clear only whn u can look in2 ur own heart.. i knw u guys will say >not worthit but i like2 b ahead of D game. wut are ur predctions of him calin?how shld i B toward him rathr than not trust?
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